Here are excerpts from the book: YOU ARE WHO YOU LOVE (using your relationships to improve yourself) by T.J. Kupper. Nice read.
Who you love says quite a lot about you - maybe even more about you than about the other person.
There is a distinct difference between what makes a relationship work and what makes it worthy of analysis.
A relationship that should be broken off immediately can still hold potential for you to learn from it if you think about it instead of staying in it.
Life is a free and always-open classroom where you don't have to pay tuition - just your dues - and your teachers are the very people you love, whether or not they know it.
The only people we have to please are ourselves and the peope we have chosen to love because in the end, they are one and the same : we are who we love.
Have a good idea, of who you love, why you love them and what that says about you.
Your love reflects what you want to see in your own life.