Since it's the LOVE month let me share the love lessons I'm learning in life, not to make you jaded about love but to make us women stop psychoanalyzing our men. Most times the reasons we are looking for, the answers to the many questions we pose about our relationships with them, mostly the WHYs, are just simple and are just staring us in the face. It's probably because we cannot accept the true reasons (the one we already know) so we look for the alternative: words we actually prefer to hear to make us feel better (as the thought that our relationships are on the verge of falling apart just makes us sick). As friends, we can help them move on one day at a time although we should never give false hopes to those who're asking for our two cents worth. In our lifetime I know we've been the former, we've been the latter.
Lesson 1: Pag pinakilala ka ng lalaki sa family nya, seryoso sya sayo. (If he lets you meet his family, he's got good intentions.)
I've learned this from a friend who once experienced this myth. As a woman, we tend to psychoanalyze the moves of the men in our lives as to whether they are dead serious and head over heels in love to us or are just playing us around, if and when they bring us to their parent's house. Not all men think the same. Take this case where there's a guy pala out there who's very close to his mom that he can bring any girl home and introduces you as his girlfriend even if just a week ago, there was another girlfriend too. It's embarrassing but there are moms who don't take it seriously if their sons always bring new girlfriends at home because to them for as long as their sons aren't married yet, they are still licensed to such things kumbaga, binata naman yan hayaan mong magsawa. Seriously girls, whether we care to admit it or not, there are thinkings like that, whether from dads or moms or other members of the family.
Do not be suspicious though, just do not ever believe that one-hundred percent of the time, if he brings you home to meet his family, he's serious or faithful to have or want a relationship with you.
Lesson 1: Pag pinakilala ka ng lalaki sa family nya, seryoso sya sayo. (If he lets you meet his family, he's got good intentions.)
I've learned this from a friend who once experienced this myth. As a woman, we tend to psychoanalyze the moves of the men in our lives as to whether they are dead serious and head over heels in love to us or are just playing us around, if and when they bring us to their parent's house. Not all men think the same. Take this case where there's a guy pala out there who's very close to his mom that he can bring any girl home and introduces you as his girlfriend even if just a week ago, there was another girlfriend too. It's embarrassing but there are moms who don't take it seriously if their sons always bring new girlfriends at home because to them for as long as their sons aren't married yet, they are still licensed to such things kumbaga, binata naman yan hayaan mong magsawa. Seriously girls, whether we care to admit it or not, there are thinkings like that, whether from dads or moms or other members of the family.
Do not be suspicious though, just do not ever believe that one-hundred percent of the time, if he brings you home to meet his family, he's serious or faithful to have or want a relationship with you.
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